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Idiyemi's ordeal

Idiyemi is a name forged from the deceit in a lover's tongue. Her real name is Jessy, born and raised in the South of Nigeria, she moved to Lagos almost a decade ago for her university education.

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Almost a year ago, Idiyemi met Jon on one of the social media sites. She thought he was interesting and could be a friend afterwards. So one day after a couple of months chatting on WhatsApp and all, they decided to meet.

It wasn't too much trouble locating Idiyemi's workplace as she thought it'd be a good idea, because earlier that day Jon had mentioned going to the island for a meeting. And since he'd be driving through her office, she felt it'd be cool for him to breeze in for a minute or two.

A few hours later, Jon called Idiyemi that he was parked outside and cos of the rain, he couldn't go in. So, he asked if it's okay for her to come outside considering she might have an umbrella. Idiyemi was excited, and so she picked up her umbrella, gave an excuse to her colleague and dashed out.

It was a good but brief meet, it was worth it for they're both happy to see each other for the first time. They hugged and talked for a while, and just as Jessy turned to head back into the building, Jon saw something that struck him. It was her butt, and that's what led to the name "Idiyemi"

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Wow, you really have a beautiful shape he exclaimed. Idiyemi turned to look at him with a smile, and she continued off to the office. So, they became a bit close afterwards, chatting, texting and calling each other sometimes.

Almost a year after their meeting, Jessy decided it was time to rekindle that friendship, so she put a call through to Jon. It wasn't long before another meeting was planned, but Jessy had her hands full, so she kept postponing. Then finally, a weekend was free for Jessy and they both decided to make it happen.

It was on a Saturday evening, casually dressed up Jessy opened her Uber App to finding a ride down to Lagos mainland. A couple of minutes later she got one and headed for Jon's house. She put a call through to him so as to navigate the way for the Uber driver who wasn't very familiar with the area. Soon, they arrived.

All smiling Jon stepped out tall and fine, leaned forward for a hug and walked Jessy inside. There they were, laughing and talking so much about their common passion for music and books. It was a lovely evening for them both, Jon made a nice meal for Jessy and she enjoyed her short visit.

A week later, Jon had invited her to sit and relax while watching a live band in his area. Jenny, a bit sceptical told him she'd think about it, but he insisted it was going to be fun for them both. The evening approached for the set night out and as usual, Uber got her there. Jon was waiting to welcome her, and he was really excited to see Jessy that night.

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It was a long fun night, and they left just before 02:00am. They got to his house, tired and worn-out, Jessy couldn't wait to fall asleep. She finally got settled in bed, and trying to fall asleep, Jon curled up beside her. Hey, it'd be better if you just moved to the other side for the bed is big enough to occupy 4 people.

He wouldn't stop trying to kiss her, romance her, Jessy was unhappy with his moves for she'd imagined him as a gentleman. I am not your girlfriend and we haven't decided on starting a relationship. C'mon idiyemi, we've come a long way already, and I care about you. I don't want you to turn me down, because I have feelings for you. Please give me a chance, pleaded Jon.

Ahhh, this is why I don't like sleepovers, this time Jessy decided to let him make love to her so that she could finally get some sleep. And so, the condom broke. Jessy felt something and asked to confirm, please stop this is not safe. Thrusting and thrusting, stop, please stop and use another condom for this is not a safe period. I will use the withdrawal method, he said, but Jessy was disappointed and unhappy.

A few minutes later, he got up into the shower. Shortly he returned and said "go and clean up" Jessy got up into the bathroom and it appeared he didn't apply the Withdrawal method.

Jessy was disappointed, she was mad at herself for agreeing to attend the event with him.

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Just as it was dawn, Jessy felt a hand moving around her body, oh, please let me sleep, you are going to  make me sick. I haven't had enough sleep, please be nice and let me have enough rest and soon, I'll be out of here.

Don't talk like this darling, I wish we could always wake up in bed like this everyday, by this time he'd already started pulling his way through. Are you kidding me, no protection, are you trying to hurt me on purpose, I told you it wasn't safe as a woman.

Adamant and not paying attention to what Jessy was saying, he'd already started stroking her. Jessy felt like crap, there's no explaining how she felt. After it was over, she went to clean up just so she could fall asleep because her head was already aching from her lack of sleep.

When she finally awoke, there wasn't much to talk about. He offered her some tea, and he later went back to bed. By this time Jessy got up to freshen up and afterwards told him she's leaving. Would you take the bus home? Dressed like this, please let me use your Wi-Fi to get me an Uber. It wasn't long before she got a ride home.

She wrote him a few words to express her regrets, but he said nothing. He read the messages and never apologised nor replied to them. Jessy felt neglected, and decided to call but to her surprised Jon only complained about her bringing up the issue. It was a terrible experience for Jessy, she decided to move on. But Jon never called to apologise nor text to say hello.

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3 weeks later, Jessy missed her period, she was furious, dumbfounded and confused. Four (4) days passed with no sign of menstruation, Jessy decided to call her best friend (a pharmacist) for advice. She recommended a pill, but after using them, nothing happened. By this time Jessy had called Jon to notify him, to her surprise, he only said, go get tested and let me know the results.

She got a Strip from the pharmacy on the way home from work, and early the next morning, she quickly got to the bathroom to clear her doubt once and for all.

The test came positive, and Jessy just stood there like a confused puppy.

She found her strength and got dressed for work, she called him immediately she got in. I will send you the prescription to use for the abortion, my ex used it. So, it definitely will work for you. Please text it to me as soon as possible, she quit the call. How can a human being be this cold, she asked herself.

Later that day, he sent the prescription and told her to go get it. Jessy was broken and broke, no money to pay her transport to work and now, everything decides to go wrong. Please, try to get them for me cos I haven't been paid at work, i will send it during the weekend cos I am out of town. Delay is dangerous, he knew this but it was fun for him punishing a woman.

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Luckily for Jessy, she got paid on the Friday of that week, and she quickly got the medication. It was a horrifying experience, it was like a miscarriage, pains and unexplained feelings engulfed her during the process, she couldn't help but wonder in tears, what she'd done to Jon for all the punishment.

She bled through the week, buying more toiletries and still Jon hadn't sent her the pills. She told him she'd gotten the meditations and she needed money for toiletries, he insisted he had no money. Please send me the money for this medicine that I just got, I don't need your money, but would you at least come check up on me? He was reluctant with his response, of course he wouldn't visit her because she was just another sweet girl who fell in his traps.

Jessy left messages and calls, a week later, Jon sent the exact amount for the pills and nothing more. He complained about Jessy being disrespectful, because other girls younger than her wouldn't talk to him in such manner. And so Jessy bled for 2 weeks and some days, went for check up and she was cleared to go home.

Jon was only interested in the butt and not the girl. It's painful how men treat women like garbage.

Jon is a mistake any woman should try to avoid.

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Jon is a plague in disguise of a human being, regardless of their gender, there are lots of people out there with the same traits as Jon’s.

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