The National Alliance on Mental Illness describes borderline personality disorder as "a condition characterized by difficulties regulating emotion."
That may sound incredibly simple, but ask anyone who either has BPD or knows someone who has BPD and you'll find that it's anything but "simple."
With BPD and other mental health issues, it's important to seek qualified professional help and guidance if at all possible — although unfortunately, sometimes available resources don't permit this.
If you notice that someone you care about is struggling, it is on all of us to offer our support and understanding to break down the social stigmas that seem to swirl around even discussing this stuff.
Additionally, NAMI says that 75% of sufferers of BPD are women, but as Mayo Clinic psychiatry professor Dr. Brian Palmer pointed out, that number comes from clinical samples. He stated in this presentation that, in community samples, the gender breakdown tends to be more evenly split.
According to the National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH), people with BPD may experience mood swings, fluctuating interests and values, and a tendency to see things in extremes — either entirely good or all bad. They might also experience shifting feelings which can lead to unstable relationships.
The NIMH also lists the following signs and symptoms as indicators of BPD:
Note that you or a loved one need not show every symptom on this list and that only a professional can give you an accurate diagnosis.
According to NAMI, a person with BPD may also simultaneously be dealing with a range of other conditions, from bipolar disorder to depression to eating disorders to substance abuse.
Because it can be so complicated and tricky to manage, it's extremely important to try to get professional help if you or someone you care about is trying to carry this exhausting mental health burden alone.
Patients undergoing DBT typically see their therapist for a normal one-on-one session, and then also participate in a group session during the week. The two sessions work together to teach and reinforce effective coping skills for individuals who are battling BPD.
In this video, licensed therapist Kati Morton offers a brief outline of the four pillars of DBT: mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness.
Dr. John M. Oldham, an expert in personality disorders and professor of psychiatry in the Menninger department of psychiatry and behavioral sciences at Baylor College of Medicine wrote in the American Journal of Psychiatry that an estimated 60 to 70% of individuals diagnosed with BPD make suicide attempts.
According to the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, no complete record of suicide attempts among the general population in the US is currently kept. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention does, HOWEVER, collect data from hospitals on non-fatal injuries that resulted from self-harm. Specific information varies by demographic, but collective rates of attempts were under 20% as of 2016, which was the most recent data available.
Understanding and supporting someone going through something as volatile and difficult as BPD isn't always easy — but it can be done.
NAMI has some helpful tips for anyone who is supporting someone with BPD. Since this adds additional stress to your life, you may also want to consider seeking therapy for yourself if you aren't already regularly seeing a therapist.
If you are struggling with mental illness and need help finding treatment, visit the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration website or call their free 24/7 helpline at 1-800-662-HELP.
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