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Women are sensual beings so its only fair to flex your feminine energy by technically using words to enchant and delight your partner during sex. Some, if not most Nigerian women have big problems talking dirty in the bedroom and they fail to understand or realize that its a vital instrument in your love arsenal. So now, here are 10 little but sweet phrases to whisper into his ears -- at that right time.

1. "I'm not wearing any undies":&nbsp;This is a major turn-on for men. According to Abiola Abrams, author of "Scared Bombshell Handbook of Self-Love," expectation and mystery are two of the sexiest factors when it comes to libido.&nbsp;Whispering that you are not wearing any underwear while in a crowded room will make for very interesting times ahead. Another option is whispering, “Guest what color my undies are.” You can be very descriptive and/or turn it into a game.

2. "I need to feel you right now":&nbsp; Are you in a distant relationship or went away from your partner for a few days or hours? This is the sweetest nothing to make him wish he was beside you or even come running to you. You can tell him this via Skype or Facetime or a phone call. Make him know you miss and want him. Every man will trip.

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3. "Please do that again":&nbsp;Oh boy! This is a good one! Men respond to positive affirmation that what we are doing works, if you get my drift. When he's doing a 'great job', please feel free to tell him to "do it again". Another option is to say, "yea, I like that, keep going like that."

4. "I want you to kiss me right here": Every women adores when kissed like a beautiful goddess. So you can pick the place on your bombshell body and point it out to you boo. It could be your neck, lips, forehead, belly or toes etc but be rest assured you could be French-kissed everywhere too!

5. "You taste amazing": Oh yes! Make him feel good about and comfortable with himself. Being in that mood means all your senses are involved… sound, sight, touch, smell and taste…

6. "It's all yours": This is familiar but useful. As human beings, we are territorial and to make him feel in charge is like you surrendering yourself to him at that time. Which man doesn't want to feel like a lord? I mean, ask Christian Grey!

7. "Harder":&nbsp; Oh Lord! This is insane! It's telling him, he's doing everything right and on time! But please make sure your room is sound proof because this is the point of complete madness in bed!

8. "I can't get enough of you, I'm addicted": Who wouldn’t want to be someone’s addiction? This simply means he is irresistible and that you can’t get enough. Let him know how turned on you are. This will turn up the heat whether you have been together for 10 months or 10 years. Trust me.

9. "Make me do it babe": Want to experiment with a little fun, sexy, and healthy power exchange?&nbsp;Then put him in charge here. If you have a “50 Shades” fantasy, you don’t need any tools or toys to get started. Just tell him to make you do it. Whatever it is he wants… Whatever you decide…

10. "Thank You": You can’t assume that your partner knows how you feel - in or out of the bedroom. Let him know how turned on you are by his presence and watch the sparks fly. A simple thank you can be incredibly sexy when said at the right time.

Bonus tips:&nbsp;

• If we were not at dinner, and all of these people weren’t here…

• I never thought I would feel anyone who makes me feel so hot all the time

Some, if not most Nigerian women have big problems talking dirty in the bedroom and they fail to understand or realize that it's a vital instrument in your love arsenal.

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Women wear G-strings and its sexy but if a man should wear the same underwear, some , if not most women, think its just bizarre. Some women assume that these men are homosexuals for wearing what they consider as "female underwear".

However, some men think people should be allowed to wear whatever undies they choose to wear and not be judged for trying to be free.

Ever seen a man rocking a lacy thong? It could be the most disgusting thing as well as the most interesting event of the entire day. Most women feel female undies should be left for females to wear likewise men's. So why would a man wear a thong in the first place?

A friend of mine once&nbsp;recounted the day she discovered her younger brother had been sharing her G-strings for months. She said she was pissed, shocked and angry. According to her, millions of thoughts ran into her head… is my brother gay?

Just like most of you girls, I was short of words but that left me with the question, do men who wear G-strings worry they could be called names labelled as homosexuals (even if they may not be?)

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So I asked some of my male colleagues if men should wear thongs. According to them, its biologically not healthy for a man to rock G-strings. From what they said, it's not good for the balls and could affect a man's potential to produce children. Instead, they recommend boxers or briefs in order for the genitals to be free and be properly ventilated.

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Some of the guys even encourage other men to learn to sleep naked. Besides being like a relief, it frees the testicles which makes sleeping more comfortable (maybe not so much in extreme cold or a mosquito-infested area)

As for most women, its simply just weird or bizarre&nbsp;and inappropriate for men to wear G-strings beneath their jeans or regular pants. They advise that men who do so should please stop and let undies which belongs to females stay with females.

Some men think people should be allowed to wear whatever undies they choose to wear and not be judged for trying to be free. But what do women think?

Ladies, what do you think of men who wear thongs?

Not all men are the same, so you may have to master your techniques to match his personality, after all you know him way better than we do.

The principle of seduction is quite different from flirtation but it applies to every man. It all boils down to just hitting one hidden switch to turn him on.

Sometimes, if not most, the switch could be triggered with nothing but your personality and conversation skills and at other times, it can be your smile, looks, a killer stir and or a mistaken touch!

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A woman's scent can drive a man crazy. So many men would admit that one of the most powerful characteristics of a woman that turns them on is her scent. Her scent is one of the most potent subconscious influence that affect any man's judgement about sex. Simply endeavor you use perfumes that are not so strong and always target your pulse points - wrists, behind your ear, knees, ankles, elbows and around your neck. Make your perfume yours - something he can easy recognize anywhere he is.

Shine like a supermodel and gaze at him like a mistress. Be assertive, you know what you want, make sure it looks like you know how to get it. Do not over-do it but don’t look weak either. Stay off being arrogant – men often get bored when they aren’t the ones doing most of the talking. So let him talk and be super attentive. Maintain a good posture, arched back and shoulders backwards.

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Don't look too desperate either. Most men get turned off when women reveal a lot more than what they are hiding. A classy dress which shows a little, makes you look glamorous and maybe reveals a leg or two will drive him crazy over a romantic dinner. Make sure you are wearing some sexy lingerie underneath though… who knows what happens later.

A meeting at his favorite spot can be a fun hangout for him but don’t do it all the time. Choose places with minimal distractions so your man can focus on you alone, such as restaurants or a candle light dinner with some soothing music… his favorite genres.

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Look at him when he’s not looking and turn away when he finds you staring at him – cover it up with an embarrassed smile. Do this on repeat. He'll notice.

The principle of seduction is quite different from flirtation but it applies to every man. It all boils down to just hitting one hidden switch to turn him on.

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There is no specific way to know if a person truly loves you but there are a few signals to let you figure out what is on the mind of your loved one.

Paying attention on how the person acts, what they say and what they do when you are together can let you know if the person you love loves you back.

<h2>1. Is the person happy being around you?</h2>

If a person has had a very bad day but lights up when you come around, that's a sign of love. If he/she is in love with you then the sight of you or your voice is guaranteed to make him or her feel better. To be sure, see how s/he reacts the next time you show up when s/he was in a bad mood.

<h2>2. Does the person say "I love you" and means it?</h2>

If your romantic partner really loves you and tells you this much while looking into your eyes, sounding earnest, and not wanting anything from you, then it's likely that s/he really means it.If the person undeniably loves you, then s/he will say it for no reason at all, not just because s/he needs a favor or because it feels like the right thing to say. However, remember that there is a big difference between "Love ya!" and "I love you."

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<h2>3. Can the person honestly be him/herself around you?</h2>

When someone loves you, he completely opens up to you. If you get to see a whole side of that person that he/she doesn’t show the public, that may be a love sign. For instance, if your partner is pretty serious or polite in public, but shows a more goofy and silly side when you're alone, then s/he is really opening up to you and loves you. If the person shares his/her deepest emotions with you and is comfortable with it, then that is love. If the person is also being comfortable not looking perfect, tripping, or having food stuck in his or her teeth around you, that means s/he is okay if you see every side of him or her.

<h2>4. How does the person look at you?</h2>

There is that stir that someone gives you that melts your soul. You can check your loved one's face the next time you see him/her… does he/she look at you in a goofy, watery, silly and adorable way that can only be described as "googly-eyed"? You will know it when you see it. You won't get this look all the time — you can spot it in the morning, or randomly across the dinner table. You may also be able to catch the person staring at you with the same expression.

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<h2>5. Does the person talk about your future together?</h2>

If the person talks about the future and always includes you in it, then there is a good chance s/he truly loves you because true commitment means seeing a forever with another person.&nbsp;If the person routinely talks about what you're going to do in the future, about what your lives will look like one, two, or even ten years in the future together,&nbsp;what your kids will look like, where you will retire together, or where you will go for your honeymoon, then he is probably in love with you.

5 ways to know if someone really loves you  [womansday]

Paying attention on how the person acts, what they say and what they do when you are together can let you know if the person you love loves you back.

5 ways to know if someone really loves you

One of the biggest questions asked amongst us today is: "Why the hell do guys send unwanted d**k pics?" What are they hoping to achieve? Why do they even think we want to see them?

1. They're not really thinking. Decapsk8 says he sent a dick pic once and had no idea why he sent it. After he found out the woman he had sent it to showed his photo to her 80-year-old coworker, that was the end of his pic-sending career.

2. They want an opinion on the photo. SpartanH089 says he sent a dick pic to his ex because he wanted to know what she thought of it. He said his ex was impressed, not with his dick, but with the "quality of the picture." Um, OK.

3. It's their kink. Tempacct16 says his kink is sending dick pics and that it "just makes me feel good." He says he's rarely looking for sex, but just really likes feeling like someone's impressed with him and desires him sexually.

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4. They assume women like getting them because they want vagina pics. Dysph0ria rightly calls this a "missaplication [sic] of the Golden Rule." He says, "We'd love it if random women sent us nude pics. Stupid guys who know nothing about women tend to assume women would respond the same way we would, as if women are just like us.

5. They want to know if you're interested. AsAGayJewishDemocrat says he's a gay guy who occasionally sends dick pics as a way to gauge how interested someone is. So I guess if they write back, "Yup!" he knows he's in.

6. It doesn't work often, but it does work sometimes. Gluetrap says while it only works "like 1 percent" of the time, those are good enough odds for him. I'm sure he's not alone there.

7. They like their dick and want to show it off. Itsreallyscary says he has a "big dong" and gets off on the reactions to it. He says, "I always felt like having a big dong sucks if nobody knows about it," so he likes the reactions he gets when they find out.

8. They have low self-esteem. Wienerdust openly admits he sent dick picks because he had "poor self-esteem and desired to be 'wanted' sexually." He says he finally stopped sending them because "the validation I was getting from it was shallow" and it didn't seem worth it.

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9. They momentarily lose track of their sanity. Seven_inch says he got really turned on one night and just took a dick pic and sent it to a girl he met online. He says he really wasn't thinking and just got "caught up in the moment." He also says he's never sent an unsolicited dick pic since.

10. They think it's thrilling. Rz-req says he gets a "thrill" while he's doing it and feels "lucky to receive positive responses" from the women he sent them to.

11. They have horrible social skills. GotNoDice says he used to send dick pics because "I had a large member but weak social skills with women." A+ self-awareness.

What's the motive behing sending dick pics?

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<h1>Ladies, are you confused on what to eat during your period? </h1>

Do you find it difficult not to eat that seductive ice cream, candy or that envious chocolate? Well, these five food choices could make your dreams come true.

Telling you to avoid sugar while on your period is like asking a child to think of their own punishment — it’s just impossible. So go with natural sugars instead of processed ones which could lead to a crash later on. Plums, figs, and watermelon are just a few of the fiber rich fruits you should reach for since they can help with your regularity.

This may seem like a no-brainer, but many #women completely forget that their bodies are losing as much fluid as they are and while you may want to reach for the Coca Cola, your best bet is actually WATER (H2O). Unlike coffees and colas which have caffeine (which could increase muscle cramps) water is pure and good for your body’s health all around.

Leafy green vegetables are loaded with iron rich nutrients that your body needs when you’re menstruating. Have a small salad with dinner and you can be sure that you’re feeding your #body just what it needs. Be careful of eating too much though, as some leafy greens can lead to bloating.

Salmon and tuna are both fish that are rich in Omega 3’s and other fatty acids that are great for relaxing the muscles in your #body, which may decrease the severity of your cramps. Try a nice tuna roll from your local sushi restaurant, or try grilling up some salmon yourself at home.

While there is some debate on this as chocolate contains caffeine and is loaded with sugar, chocolate also contains magnesium, a nutrient that gets depleted whilst on your cycle. Go ahead and have a little, the darker the better, since chocolate has been scientifically proven to release serotonin, that feel good chemical you love so much. Moderation is the key here as too much chocolate (especially milk chocolate) can lead to unwanted #weight gain and bloating.

Were you told NEVER to eat chocolate during your period? Well, check here for the best food to consume during that time of the month.

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<h1>Almost every lady wants to get married someday but do they, at some point, question why they haven't said yes to the other proposals in their past? Some ladies find it hard to commit themselves in any kind of relationship because of very few things they claim they don’t like in a guy. </h1>

Let's take a look at some of those reasons:

I have a problem with men who are not brilliant, smart or even intelligent. What's our discussion going to be like? Unintelligent men are shallow and short sighted. They cannot even think for themselves or make sense out of nothing. Most of them can neither create business ideas nor anything that can bring us money.&nbsp;What's their use?

These men get me angry every time. Ever being in a gathering where only one guy's voice tops everyone else's or he talks when no one wants to listen? It's different when he's the life of the party. This one just loves talking and making noise.

A man who cares less about his hygiene should be incapable of housing a relationship. These men grow hair under their armpits and manhood region long enough to be a forest. They look shabby all the time. Some even care to wear ironed clothes or comb their hair when coming to meet your parents. Jeez!

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A rich man without education is not the best ladies. Yes, he can afford everything you want but he dare not open his mouth to make a speech in front of your friends or parents or your bosses. Most ladies get so embarrassed and ashamed of these men in most occasions.

No one said a man is not supposed to be God-fearing or be born again. In fact, its great thing to marry or date a man who fears God but these ones in this category are the ones who call Jesus ten times in a conversation of 5 minutes. They don’t fail to remind you of your wrong doings or discourage you from wearing pretty clothes or jewelries. They even insist that makeup is for the devil and listening to Whitney Houston or Celine Dion will lead you to hell.

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No woman in her right senses should go for these group of men. These men think beating up a woman is cool, shows their strength and authority in their homes. They treat women like trash for the fun of it. These men are full of pride but the secret is they are suffering from inferiority complex.

These ones annoy most ladies I know. They run to their mothers for every and any little thing going on in their lives. They also compare us with their mothers. They can forget to get you a gift while on a foreign trip but their mothers always have something expensive. Some of these men always talk about what their mothers have achieved and if not for their mothers, they won’t be the man they are. *Rolling my eyes*

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Ladies, you know what and who you are so don't settle for less!

Some ladies find it hard to commit themselves in any kind of relationship because of very few things they claim they don’t like in a guy.

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<h1>Friendship is not bought, its earned just like love and trust. So, do you choose the people you call friends? Absolutely! Are there some of those friends you can do without? Of course! </h1>

And are there the kinds of friends you already have that you should avoid?

Here are seven types of friends you could totally stay away from.

<h3>1.) Those who don’t mean you well</h3>

Having people you call friends who's desire is to see your downfall are examples of friends you should throw out of your life. These people tell you nothing good about yourself and NEVER show concern or appreciation for&nbsp;your hard work and they don’t help you when you need it.

People who speak evil about you behind your back should be avoided. These people always feel jealous of you and your achievements. They want others to feel the same so they talk about your secret flaws to those who love and trust you… all in a bid to turn them against you too.

Pretenders are nobody's friends. These people do nothing but lie in front of you day in day out. Honestly, they don't give a shit about you at all. All they care about is themselves and what they hope to achieve through you. They smile with you and do all they can to bring your downfall when you least expected it.

There's some good and bad in people who talk a whole lot. The good thing is, they keep you company in those dark and gloomy days and try to bring laughter in your life with their stories. But just as they tell you about other people, they also tell other people about you. It hard for them to control what comes out from their mouth and that's not a good sign.

<h3>5.) Those who get closer to your partners more than yourself</h3>

Those friends who get so friendly with your spouse or partners or your kids are dangerous. These people come into your life and then become your partners' or children's best friend all of a sudden. It could sound ok for some of you but it's super dangerous because they could break up your relationship with one lie, the truth or an action. Keep friends close but not close enough to hurt you.

<h3>6.) Those friends who love to borrow your items</h3>

One thing than can break up any relationship faster than distance is money. Your friend borrows money from you and assures you of the date he/she will pay back… then they don't! These situations get so bitter and nasty it could lead to family wars, enmity or even death. Also, those friends who love borrowing clothes, jewelries, shoes etc. Keep them at arms-length.

These group of people always think of themselves as higher or bigger than everyone else.&nbsp;They are so proud and over confident, it's annoying. They always interrupt you speech because they know the end. They always want to tell you what to do best because they think they are better than you. They want to solve your problems just to take all the glory. They always tell others, "if it wasn't for me she/her wouldn't be able to do...". These people should be avoided asap!

*NOTE that friendship is built on love, trust and respect.

When do you decide to end your friendship with some people? When do you know those people around you are not good enough for you? Find out.

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<h3>1. Beer for better digestion</h3>

Beer, and especially dark beer, contains up to one gram of soluble fibre* in each 30 cl glass - unlike wine, which doesn’t contain any fibre at all. Fibre plays an important role in intestinal transit (a fibre deficiency can cause gastric and intestinal disorders such as constipation or diarrhoea).

<h3>2. Beer keeps your kidneys healthy</h3>

A Finnish study singled out beer among other alcoholic beverages, finding that it was better for your kidneys. In fact, each bottle of beer you drink reduces the risk of developing kidney stones by 40%.

<h3>3. Beer for stronger bones! </h3>

A 2009 study concluded that the elevated levels of silicon in beer can contribute to higher bone density.

<h3>4. Beer to lower your bad cholesterol</h3>

The fibre in beer can also help reduce your levels of LDL cholesterol, i.e. the “bad” type of cholesterol.

<h3>5. Beer can increase your Vitamin B levels</h3>

Beer contains several B vitamins (B1, B2, B6 and B12). A Dutch study found that beer drinkers had 30 percent higher levels of vitamin B6 than their non-drinking counterparts, and levels that were twice as high as those of wine drinkers.

Beer is also a generous source of vitamin B12, an anti-anaemic factor not found in many foods.

<h3>6. Beer helps prevent blood clots </h3>

The ingredients in beer help prevent blood clots from forming.

<h3>7. Beer boosts your memory </h3>

According to studies, beer drinkers are less likely to suffer from Alzheimer’s disease and dementia than non-beer drinkers.

<h3>8. Beer as a cure for insomnia </h3>

Lactoflavin and nicotinic acid, which are both present in beer, can promote sleep!

<h3>9. Beer helps combat stress</h3>

Researchers at the University of Montreal found that two glasses of beer a day can reduce work-related stress or anxiety.

<h3>10. Beer reduces your risk of a heart attack</h3>

Beer drinkers have a 40 to 60 percent reduced risk of suffering a heart attack compared with non-beer drinkers.

10 good, healthy reasons to drink a little alcohol

For those of you who don't consume beer, it easy to judge but there are 10 things beneficial about gulping few bottles of beer after work.

<h1>The Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences have announced that</h1>

The comedian will host the 89th Oscars show which will be broadcast live by ABC on February 26, 2016.

This would mark the comedian’s first time hosting Hollywood’s most illustrious awards ceremony. Michael De Luca and Jennifer Todd are producing the prestigious event.

The 2016 which was hosted by Chris Rock in February, attracted 34.3 million total viewers; an 11-year low for the Oscar-cast.

Speaking on Jimmy as a host, Academy President Cheryl Boone Isaacs said, “Jimmy has the qualities of all the great hosts. He knows who he is, he knows the audience and he knows how to captain a ship with many moving parts. We're thrilled he has agreed to host our show.”

Following the 2016 #OscarsSoWhite backlash, the Academy voted <a href="" id="32cdd028-07ab-5adb-9919-0185b49a6883">undefined</a> with a goal of doubling the diverse membership by 2020.

On Wednesday, June 29, 2016, the Academy invited 683 new members, with 46% being female and 41% people of color.

The 89th Academy Awards will hold on Sunday, February 26, 2017, at the Dolby Theatre at Hollywood and Highland Center in Hollywood.

Jimmy Kimmel will be hosting the 2017 Oscar Awards, the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences have announced.

Comedian to host 2017 Oscars

<h3>Women are the sexiest people on the planet and they are sexy in all kinds of ways.</h3>

<h3>In fact, every woman is sexy in her own way, every woman defines sexiness in her own way and every woman exhibits sexiness in her own way.</h3>

There are quite a few things women do that are unintentionally sexy, though. These make the guys go crazy for us. That's how sexy we are – we're sexy without even trying, without even knowing that we're sexy.

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1.) Loving your body: Because men love what they see, it's fascinating to them to see a woman who just loves the way she is and is super confident about her body. As a woman, love your curves,  your sharp angles and your soft edges. Also, love your scars, your stretch marks, your best features, and your problem areas. These only make you a confident beautiful woman.

2.) Having a sense of humor: There is nothing sexier than bringing laughter into someone's sad day, week or even life. You might have a ribald sense of humor, a sharp and witty one, or a low-key, dry sense of humor – whatever it is, it's hot… To men, of course!

3.) Showing off your intelligence: Spotlighting your brilliance is super sexy. No need to show-off or behave like you know it all. Being smart and knowing you're right will make someone always think you're being pretentious  but who cares!? Never hold back your intelligence. Never be ashamed of how smart you are.

4.) Being optimistic: Being positive with everything doesn't just make someone like being around you but you also get to encourage him/her to see life in another light - positive light! No man wants a woman who always think the worse about everything. Trust me.

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5.) The eyes have it all: Nothing like the eyes… big, wet, loving and pretty. One look and he comes running.

6.) Flicking your hair: Some of us (women) do this with no motive behind our actions. Even with short hair some of us still do it and it always stands out because there's just something sexy about it. It may sound shallow but men believe its sexy.

7.) A simple touch to the chest: Just like a smile, sometimes the natural things are just the sexiest. Only guys can really explain how they feel when her hands run through their chests…especially if they're shirtless.

8.) Biting your lower lip: Even movie directors use this act for the seduction scenes. It works magic on men!

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9.) standing on your toes: This is sexy as h***! Even when a woman is just trying to get something from the upper shelve… almost all the men will think of kissing or running to help her out. It drives them crazy.

10.) Placing your head below his chin: This is an obviously unintentional act but the way the woman fits in the man's body sends a sweet sensation through his body.  The way you fit with your lover is just special and definitely so sexy.

11.) When you get a little mad: You're sexy when you smile, when you open yourself up, and when you simply exist as yourself, happy and contented with the #skin you're in. But it's also good to know that I can get angry some times. I'm not necessarily slightly angry all the time or anything, but my face makes it #look like I am. Fighting with him sometimes, makes him want that make up sex even more.

Every woman is sexy in her own way, every woman defines sexiness in her own way and every woman exhibits sexiness in her own way.

10 unintentional sexy things women do to turn men on

Taylor Swift should get ready for some celebration! The singer's longtime BFF, Abigail Anderson is engaged to her boyfriend, Matt Lucier.

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"Tonight I answered the easiest question I’ve ever been asked,” she captioned the shot. "Without any doubt and without fear - I am so excited for this next chapter in our lives. … Thank you to my family &amp; all of my friends that went the extra mile to make sure this night was everything I’ve ever imagined. #HePutARingOnIt.”

Groom-to-be, Lucier, who proposed at Centennial Park in their hometown of Nashville, posted another stunning lakeside pic, writing, "@abigail_lauren lucier… Has a nice ring to it… Boom!pun of the day goes to me #dreamgirl.”

Shortly after the sweet proposal, Anderson also shared the news on Snapchat. "A MILLION TIMES, YES!" she captioned a picture of herself showing off her gorgeous new engagement ring.

Anderson, 26, was the inspiration behind Swift’s 2009 single “Fifteen,” which tells the story of the duo’s freshman year of high school, where they both suffered heartbreak for the first time. “You sit in class next to a redhead named Abigail and soon enough you’re best friends,” she sings before adding, “Abigail gave everything she had to a boy who changed his mind / And we both cried."

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Then in April 2015, the pop singer, 26, threw her BFF an epic 25th birthday party in Nashville, where she surprised guests with a fun-filled performance from Anderson’s favorite band, Dashboard Confessional, and Paramore lead singer Hayley Williams.

Looks like Taylor has a wedding to plan!

Taylor Swift's bff, Abigail Anderson is engaged

The bride-to-be shared the exciting news with a gorgeous Instagram photo of herself kissing her new fiancé on Tuesday, June 28.

Pop star's longtime BFF, Abigail Anderson is engaged

"I was always an artist, and just picked up barbering as a side gig," the Texas-based barber who goes by the super-cool Instagram name Rob The Original, told BuzzFeed Life.

"Since I can remember I had a pencil or markers or something to draw with in my hand. My parents were very hard to please, but one day I drew something for them and they were very impressed. I realized then that this is what I wanted to do. I took art classes here and there in high school and stuff, but it was all really developed myself through practice."

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“I use eye liner pencils to add vibrant colors for special occasions. People do this usually for sport games or parties to catch attention. It’s perfect because it’s not permanent,” says Ferrel. “Color is a huge commitment so this allows for people to be a little more spontaneous without the long term effects, because it can be washed out whenever, but the design will still be in the hair so you’ll still have a sharp image as well.”

Reports say Ferrel can do almost anything from Albert Einstein to the Joker to Kimye (yes, Kim Kardashian and Kanye West).

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"The hardest part is making sure the client has the right hair,” Ferrel said. "The darker the hair, the better.”

The now popular barber however admits that these works of art aren't exactly quick work, either. They can take up to two hours to complete and range anywhere from 30 to 300 dollars. The best part is that no subject is off-limits. The sky is the limit!

“I probably wouldn’t do any portraits of evil dictators or anything disrespectful to people’s culture,” he said.

Rob Ferrel doesn’t just cut hair, but he can actually create beautiful life-like shaved portraits on people's heads

Rob Ferrel has mastered his craft so well, he doesn’t just cut hair, but he can actually create beautiful life-like shaved portraits on people's heads.

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<h3>Popular Cameroonian film maker Gilbert Agbor has taken to to his Facebook page to define who a&nbsp; true"big girl" isn as his own means to help his fellow men know who they want to date or are already dating.</h3>

<h3>To him, a big girl is a woman with dignity who doesnt boast about her fat bank account or the number of men shes had sex with but is focused on being a great role model in her community. However, theres more...</h3>

<ul><li>The fact that different guys pick you up every Friday night does not make you a big girl. </li><li>The fact that you wear all latest clothes in the market, does not make you a big girl.</li><li>The fact that you use the latest phone, big phones, iPad, blackberry, android, Samsung Galaxy and different men pay money into your account does not make you a big girl.</li><li>For the fact that you have entered almost all the biggest hotels in the city with different guys, does not make you a big girl. It does not even make you smart! You are only eating up your future.</li><li>The fact that you dress half naked and you wear clothes that expose your cleavages and definitely makes you look sexy does not make you a big girl. You are just too cheap.</li></ul>

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<ul><li>A big girl is a girl with enough brain in her, not the one with more money.</li><li>The girl that thinks of consequences before actions. </li><li>She is not the one who flirts with all men around her. </li><li>She is the one who respects her relationship and marriage. </li><li>She is never heard but seen. </li><li>You know her by what she does, her behavior speaks a lot about her.</li><li>She is every man's queen, decently dressed and yes, always decently good looking. </li><li>A big girl respects the value of womanhood and carries herself with more dignity.</li></ul>

How would you define a typical Nigerian 'big girl' in your neighbourhood?

Men, wake up and take note! It's time you know the difference between a true big girl and a typical Nigerian big girl. Who have you been dating or having sex with?