Ageless love 22-yr-old bride slams critics over upcoming marriage to fiancé 36 years her senior

Miss King first met her future fiancé aged just 18 in November 2011, when she had a problem with her car

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The pair first met when Mr Potts repaired Miss King's car four years ago, when she was just 18. They started a relationship together around six months later play

The pair first met when Mr Potts repaired Miss King's car four years ago, when she was just 18. They started a relationship together around six months later

(Daily Mail)
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A 22-yr-old woman she will address critics when she marries her fiancé who's 36 years her senior and has three children older than her.

The intended bride, Carly King is preparing to tie the knot in a traditional high-profile white church wedding to her fiance 58-year-old Billy Potter next weekend.

But their relationship has been dogged by critics and snipers who have hit out at the pair's big age gap, which also sees Mr Potter have three children, aged 27, 29 and 31, older than Miss King and four children.

But despite the negative comments from outsiders,  King and Potters from Woodbridge in Suffolk, say that they love each other to bits and worship the ground each other walks on.

The pair first met when Mr Potts repaired Miss King's car four years ago, when she was just 18. They started a relationship together around six months later play

The pair first met when Mr Potts repaired Miss King's car four years ago, when she was just 18. They started a relationship together around six months later

(Daily Mail)

Miss King admitted: 'We tried to hide it to start with because of the age gap.

'He's got three children and we didn't want it coming out if it wasn't going to be serious.

'But people did find out and they had a lot to say about it. Most of it was negative to be honest.

'People were saying it would never last, that I was after his money. Just hurtful things. They just weren't prepared to give us a chance at all.'

Miss King first met her future fiancé aged just 18 in November 2011, when she had a problem with her car.

She explained: 'I had just passed my driving test and my car had a dodgy clutch. My sister knew of Billy and said to take it to him.

'I said ‘can I trust him though?’ I was a bit worried about it because I didn’t know who he was.

'She said ‘yes, of course you can’. So I took it round and he looked at the car and I instantly found him quite attractive.

'But I was a lot bigger then and had big, thick glasses on and was a bit of a mess. So he didn’t think anything of me at all.”

Their relationship has been dogged by critics and snipers who have hit out at the pair's big age gap, which also sees Mr Potter have three children, aged 27, 29 and 31, older than Miss King and four children play

Their relationship has been dogged by critics and snipers who have hit out at the pair's big age gap, which also sees Mr Potter have three children, aged 27, 29 and 31, older than Miss King and four children

(Daily Mail)

But romance started to smoulder six months later when Miss King was working behind the bar at her local, The Warwick, and had dropped more than two stone to weigh 10-and-a-half stone.

She was wearing contacts ahead of having laser eye surgery when Billy walked in to the pub.

'I think that then he found me attractive,' she Carly.

'At the end of my shifts, I would offer to give Billy a lift home a couple of times and that’s how it started.

'Back then when word started to spread, it was more of a ‘do you want to come to poker with me, do you want to come here with me’?

“It was more of a companionship rather than a relationship. We took it slow.'

Mr King, who’s battling Type 1 diabetes, said: 'It was at least six months before anything happened between us.'

And the couple who now live together confess that they were not surprised when accusations and bitter barbs started flowing thick and fast.

Miss King explained: 'We knew we had it coming. That’s why we tried to keep it hidden to start with.

'There are a lot of judgemental people out there.'

But she was only too happy to say yes when Mr Potter got down on one knee at their favourite restaurant, the Red Lion in Martlesham, near Ipswich, last November to propose.

Carly King, 22, with her fiance 58-year-old Billy Potts. The pair are set to marry next week in a traditional white wedding  play

Carly King, 22, with her fiance 58-year-old Billy Potts. The pair are set to marry next week in a traditional white wedding 

(DailyMail)

 

Miss King, a senior night carer at Woodbridge Residential Care Home said: 'It was a shock as he said he would never get married, but obviously he wanted to.

'The 36-year age gap has not affected anything really. At the start he said he would never get married because he wanted to warn me.

'I accepted it, but I knew deep down one day I wanted my dream wedding and in the end it just got more serious and he wanted it to. He loves me a lot.

'He finds his emotions hard to talk about but I know that he loves me. We genuinely worship the ground each other walks on.

“We like the same things. I’m very mature mentally and Billy just likes to have fun and we meet in the middle. It is just perfect.

'I am never one to go out clubbing. I think I’ve been clubbing once and came home at about 10.30pm because I absolutely hated it.

'I would rather sit down at a pub and have a meal, which is what we do regularly.'

The pair had managed to keep their courtship a secret for six months before the rumours turned into fact.

The couple are set to marry at St Mary's Parish Church in Woodbridge, near Ipswich in front of dozens of family and friends  play

The couple are set to marry at St Mary's Parish Church in Woodbridge, near Ipswich in front of dozens of family and friends 

(Daily Mail)

 

Two months after they were forced to go public as gossip and backbiting threatened to run riot, Miss King's mother, Linda, said she was keen to meet Billy.

She said: 'My mum asked me to bring him round for a barbecue. She said "we’ve got to meet him now, it’s been going on for too long".

'He came round and met all my family, who just loved him. My mum just wants what I want.

'She is the best mum in the world. She just wants me to be happy.

'Billy would not have been her ideal choice for me, of course not. But she realised how happy he made me and that made her happy.

'My friends just want what’s best for me as well. At the start they didn’t say too much in case they hurt my feelings.

'They were obviously worried about the age gap like anyone else was, but now - two are going to be bridesmaids.

'When Billy’s family had a barbecue and invited me over. I met his family.

'I knew of his sons anyway because they are a similar age to my older brother and sister. I knew them all anyway which is why I wanted to keep it quiet. I didn’t want them to flip out.'

Asked for his thoughts on their shock love affair, quieter Mr Potter said: 'I don’t think the age gap has got anything to do with it. We just get on so well together.

'Like most people said, you don’t know whether it’s going to last or not (at the start), but as time went on we got closer and closer.

'Whatever happens, you can never judge if we are going to be together in 20 years because of my age. But we are happy just as we are and we will continue as we are.'

The couple are now getting ready to tie the knot at St Mary’s Parish Church in Woodbridge next Saturday in front of dozens of family and friends. And Carly’s set her heart on starting a family before too long.

'It’s certainly not being ruled out,' she smiled.

'Everyone knows that to be fair, so it is not a secret. It is all I have ever wanted in life.'

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