How to deal with a difficult person or boss

Therefore, it is upon you to correct how you see them, and not the other way round, if you want to see a change in the way they treat you.

Most times, human beings tend to remain comfortable in one spot until something forcefully awakens them.

Those you think are making life miserable for you, are just there to shake you up, so you will improve yourself and fulfil your purpose.

Joseph’s brothers betrayed him, so he could fulfil the purpose God had destined for him. Remember he saved his family when there was famine.

Beware of how you condemn people who treat you badly because, what you hate and condemn in others, you soon become over a period of time.

Hate is an intense feeling, and so is the force of love. If you magnify thoughts of hate towards that difficult spouse, colleague or boss, what you are doing is sowing seeds into the supernatural realm.

Make no mistake the law of sowing and reaping is always active, even if you cannot see it.

You always will receive a multiplied harvest of the thoughts you project into the world, with your feeling.

So you are wondering, how do I now deal with the constant abuse, insults and annoying attitude of this person. Change yourself!

Whatever attitude you notice in someone else, the truth is that you also have it. It is the mirror principle.

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Everything is beautiful to the one who has trained him or herself to see beauty. Every offence dissolves in the presence of the force of love.

Many years ago, when I was a security guard in one of the new generation banks, I had this boss who always picked on me. He made it his duty to make life miserable for me.

Naturally, I started resenting him and there was always friction between us and I felt like leaving the job. Then I discovered the secret to dealing with these kind of issues and I put it to work.

All I simply did was to constantly project thoughts of love and progress towards him, during my moments of silent imagination.

Something started changing in me. I found out that I was filled with love for him as I pushed he thoughts, and I became relaxed around him.

While I was projecting the thoughts of love, I was thanking God for bringing that my seemingly difficult boss my way, to make me a better person.

At first it will not be as easy as I have explained it, because your human nature will want to take its pound of flesh for every wrong done.

Just keep at it and you will find out over a period of time that you will be more understanding and compassionate towards that difficult person.

The interesting part is that as you become more understanding towards them, you will find out that there attitude begins to change.

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Even if they don’t change their attitude, you will notice that people will start speaking and acting in your favour to the extent that you no longer notice the negative person’s actions towards you.

Even if you do not see an improvement immediately, their actions or inactions will not bother you anymore.

But one thing you must do is to guard your mind against any form of negative thoughts and gist about that person, even if they continue hurting you.

It is a difficult task, but you have a choice to remain angry, send out negative vibes and receive a multiplied harvest of negativity or project thoughts of love and receive multiplied love in return.

Always remember! An assumption, though false, if sustained, soon becomes hard fact.

Thank you for finding time to read this article.