Hi, Bukky!
My girl acts cold to me; I'm scared there's someone else
I feel left out and not loved anymore since we are not as intimate as we used to be.
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I have been dating a girl for the sixth month now and our relationship has been fun and intimate until last week.
Since then she has been ignoring me and asking to be alone. I hardly get even a kiss these days until I complain.
So I feel left out and not loved anymore since we are not as intimate as we used to be.
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Actually, we have been away from each other for a month because campus has closed and since coming back, she hasn't even been interested to meet me which means I'm the one always creating time to find her and say hi.
Could there be someone else in her life so that I can give up on her?
Please help me._________________
Dear reader;
Please don’t be quick to jump to conclusions.
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Communication is your first and biggest step here. Find time, have a sincere conversation with her and ask questions.
She’s actually the best person to talk to.
You won’t know until you ask. I advise that you should be gentle and kind and direct without being rude or losing your calm.
You should want to know what’s wrong, not to accuse her of anything.
All the best in that relationship.__________________Do you want to talk about your love life, marriage or family issues?
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