ADVERTISEMENT

It's OK for partners to use sex toys

Pulse readers believe there's no big deal if partners choose to include this in their relationship.

There's always a polarity on what is acceptable in relationships and marriages and what people would prefer to never do.

Partners approach issues like dispute resolution, who gets involved in your relationship business and who does not, responsibility sharing, joint accounts, how to train kids and others differently.

Even sexual activities vary in operation from relationship to relationship.

ADVERTISEMENT

For instance, we asked readers what they thought about the use of sex toys either in relationships or in marriages and as expected, opinions clashed.

50% voted to say there's nothing bad in including sex toys in the bedroom arrangement of partners either in a relationship or when married.

12.5% believe that such things are permitted only when you are yet in a relationship. Getting pleasure from sex toys should be discontinued once you become married.

And of course, there was another group, 37.5% whose vote showed that they do not believe that sex toys should have a place in relationships and marriages.

ADVERTISEMENT

One thing stands out in all of this though, the choice to include this or any other feature in your relationship is solely dependent on what you and your partner desire.

Advise from friends, religious leaders, social media influencers, motivational speakers, relationship experts and all third parties do not matter as much as what you and your partner agree on.

The agreement is what supersedes whatever view anyone may have.

Enhance Your Pulse News Experience!

Get rewards worth up to $20 when selected to participate in our exclusive focus group. Your input will help us to make informed decisions that align with your needs and preferences.

I've got feedback!

JOIN OUR PULSE COMMUNITY!

Unblock notifications in browser settings.
ADVERTISEMENT

Eyewitness? Submit your stories now via social or:

Email: eyewitness@pulse.ng

Recommended articles

Reasons you should not get piercings on these 9 body parts

Reasons you should not get piercings on these 9 body parts

These 6 reasons are why you are always the side chick in every relationship

These 6 reasons are why you are always the side chick in every relationship

Harmful side effects of okra water & who should avoid it

Harmful side effects of okra water & who should avoid it

How to block Ecobank account and ATM card

How to block Ecobank account and ATM card

Food aphrodisiacs: Can oysters really spice up your bedroom experience?

Food aphrodisiacs: Can oysters really spice up your bedroom experience?

Pulse Hot Takes: Why Nigerian married men always keep side chicks

Pulse Hot Takes: Why Nigerian married men always keep side chicks

Why the Nido and Cerelac sold in Nigeria is unhealthy

Why the Nido and Cerelac sold in Nigeria is unhealthy

8 things that seem normal but are actually sexual harassment

8 things that seem normal but are actually sexual harassment

Chess master Shawn Martinez teams up with Tunde Onakoya to break world record

Chess master Shawn Martinez teams up with Tunde Onakoya to break world record

Here's what 'WSG' means, and how it can be used in texting

Here's what 'WSG' means, and how it can be used in texting

Did you know there's a church that worships Beyoncé instead of God?

Did you know there's a church that worships Beyoncé instead of God?

Georgetown researchers engage with Nigerian music icons hosted by Jack Rich

Georgetown researchers engage with Nigerian music icons hosted by Jack Rich

ADVERTISEMENT
ADVERTISEMENT