Have you noticed that it is the guys who you initially don’t give a damn about that keeps coming for you?
We are no more in the Stone Age where guys have to do all the chasing. Now you can just slide into his DM and strike a convo. But easy on the girl, don’t be deceived.
Have you noticed that it is the guys who you initially don’t give a damn about that keeps coming for you? This may sound old school, but it still holds today.
There is nothing wrong in crushing on a guy, in fact, you can approach the guy first, but don’t be so obvious about it. Be a lady and play your cards right. Here are winning tips to hitting on a guy without being obvious about it:
1. If you want to slide into his DM, make it official.
If he’s not a celebrity or you haven’t had spoken previously, high chances are that your message will get lost in the midst of other tons of messages from other girls hitting on him. Nah, you don’t want to be that girl. Approach him with an official matter, come up with an idea that would be of benefit to him. Be creative in your approach and don’t be vague.
2. Compliment something about him and let conversation flow from there.
Guys usually don’t receive compliments as often as girls do, especially when it comes to little details like his sense of style, his charm, and charisma, skills or a particular aspect of his traits that stands out, But be careful when you do this, be genuine, no flattery or signs of obvious flirting.
3. Discretely put up a show for him.
If you want to get his attention, be sweet and interesting but don’t be clingy. If you are in the company of other people, don’t stay glued to him. Talk to other people and participate in fun activities around, but don’t leave him hanging. Let him see you as an interesting person and he’d want more of you.
So next time you see a cute guy and your auto response mode wants to start drooling over him, just hold up. Got some tricks that worked for you? Please share in the comment section below.
Written by Oluwakemi Adetola