What kind of love do you make in your relationship; vanilla or chocolate?

Did you know there's an ice cream flavour - vanilla, chocolate, etc - for the type of sex you and your boo have in your relationship?

Well now you do!

Vanilla Sex

This is the 'traditional type' of lovemaking. It's sex with no frills, no additions, no edge, no toys... just sex as it was known even to the early men. Errrr... ok maybe tracing it to the early men may be a little to much but you get the idea that's being passed here.

While vanilla sex is actually not bad, it could become monotonous and boring; repetitive and not interesting enough to lokk forward to. As a matter of fact, Vanilla sex has got a reputation for being boring sex.

Which brings us to the next one…

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Chocolate sex

This pretty much stands for every other thing that is not boring or repetitive and monotonous. It is the exciting edge that you and your boo give to your love making sessions; the adventurous but healthy practices you incorporate into your bedroom schedule so things don’t become dull.

While vanilla sex is more recognized and perfectly static in definition and operation, chocolate sex isn’t.

This is because it is an omnibus word for every form of frill, every modification and all the extras ways people have learnt over the years to make sex more enjoyable.

So whether you are talking about mindblowing oral sex, fetishes, fantasies, sex games, adventurous sex and all sorts, chocolate sex covers all the bases.

Which is better?

While many would have you believe that vanilla sex is boring, it really does not have to be.

Sometimes vanilla sex is what you need and at other times, you’d need to switch it up with chocolate.

The key is in finding a balance that works most for you and your partner.