For Women Must you like your mother-in-law to have a great marriage with her son?

Can you have a great marriage without being cool with your mother-in-law?

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Instead of trying to take her place in her son's life, make friends with her for in the end, you all both want the best for the same person

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To enjoy the happiness of a relationship and the bliss that comes with subsequent marriage, do you have to love your mother-in-law?

Yes, you have to!

Although many women always get this wrong, but it is both unfair and unwise to approach a relationship with your mother-in-law from a place of resentment and rivalry without even meeting yet! When you do this, you take away the potential to begin on a good note with her and that could taint your relationship with forever, if it does not end you and her son's relationship.

7 reasons why you should be friends with your mother-in-law play Some mother-in-laws are really great people who will make loving them an easy thing for you. (Pinterest)


Some mother-in-laws are really great people who do not fit the mould of the bad mums-in-law that is often painted in the media.

If you come with an open mind and she turns out to be a nice person, then it'll be easy to love her and you should not withdraw from creating a bond with her as that would be immensely favourable for you!

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No, you don't have to

Some other mothers-in-law are not that nice. Some of them are judgemental, aloof and unfair in their assessment of the woman who their son will marry.

If this is the kind of woman your man's mum turns out to be, it will be a little difficult to love her as she'll frustrate every or most of the attempts you make and it's OK to not kill yourself trying to love her.

However, you cannot disrespect her. Never ever. Being unfair does not change her position as your spouse's mother and even if it's impossible to love her, she forever deserves nothing but respect and anything short of that at anytime may have far reaching consequences especially on your relationship with her son.

Women forgive cheating mor than men play You'll have problems if you disrespect your partner's mum. (iStock)

Having said that, men owe the duty of protecting their wives and girlfriends from their mums' outrageous standards and demands. Since they cannot deny their mums because of a woman, if that woman is important, they'll have to teach their mums to respect the other important woman in their lives.

Also it goes without saying that your man owes your parents the same level of respect you bestow on his parents.

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