SexVille Tuesday How to guarantee your woman's orgasm every time - Dr Juliet Moses

Dr Juliet Moses is back again to take you one the strategies to giving your woman earth shaking orgasm every time you make love.

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Some women get turned off sex because their men are only int themselves, without caring for the pleasure of their partners.

Research has shown that the average man is only interested in his own satisfaction during sex, not knowing that if a woman is satisfied every time she has sex, the tendency is great for her to want more and give her best every other time they hit the sack.

There are certain trusted and tested techniques that you will need to employ to take your woman to that brink of ecstasy every other night.

Recent studies show that in order for a woman to achieve orgasm, the part of her brain associated with stress, emotion, and anxiety has to shut down, so if you're able to do something to a woman that feels so incredibly good that she completely relaxes and lets go, you're highly likely to make that woman climax.

Try these bedroom-tested strategies.

The double grip

Despite all the attention her booty may attract when she's walking down the street in tight jeans or bending over a file cabinet, a woman's butt is too often sidelined during sex. And that's why grabbing both of her cheeks when she's on top may be just the unexpected turn-on a girl needs to get off.

The buttocks are packed with nerve endings that give women a surprising jolt of pleasure; do this by spreading your fingers and squeezing both buttocks firmly.

But take it one step at a time. Yes, of course, there are women out there who crave a good spanking, but until you've had a conversation about this sort of thing, however playful you are, just keep it simple.

The up shift

Few women know this trick: when a guy is on top of you in the missionary position, have him shift his body slightly forward so that, every time he thrusts, his penis rubs against your clitoris.

This tactic is even more orgasmic if the woman's legs are together and the man's are straddling her. It increases clitoral stimulation as you can achieve the same effect when the man is on and propping himself up on his elbows, which places his abdomen in closer contact with her sweet spot.

The ultimate

There's no question that clitoral contact is the ultimate fuse blower. But how, and how much it does depends on the woman. Going down on a woman allows you to get a real sense of the stimulation she likes at every stage of arousal, especially the final one, because, you know what, she comes first. It also eliminates any performance anxiety she has during intercourse, so she can kick back and enjoy.

Learn what she likes. Get between her legs and give her a solid base of lips, tongue, gums, and even chin to rub against. At first, use your hands to guide her hips to let her know you want her to do the grinding. When she takes over, note how hard she's pushing and in what direction. Use that information later when using your fingers or giving her a more aggressive tongue bath.

The drop trick

Steady clitoral contact is essential to female orgasm. But without adequate lubrication, it can become uncomfortable.

Lubrication increases the comfort and speed with which you can penetrate the vagina and grind against the clitoris. But sometimes, no matter how turned on a woman might be psychologically, she can have trouble getting wet.

Try a couple of drops of lube on the end of your tool. Then thrust with short, rhythmic strokes while pressing your body against her pubic mound. Don't use too much lube or it'll feel like throwing a hot dog down a hallway.

The neck warmer

Women's necks are highly responsive touch pads, you know. The skin is thin, and the blood vessels are close to the surface. Psychologically, it can remind some women of their first sexual experiences, which could make it even more exciting. But hey, don't dwell on the neck as if you want to suck out the blood. Just nibbles will do!

When you're having sex and she's clearly moving toward orgasm, brush your lips from her collarbone to her jaw, then give her neck big, warm kisses until she comes unhinged.

The play-by-play

For a verbal girl, a string of four-letter words whispered in the heat of the moment can work wonders.

Start by complimenting her or talking about how good what you're doing feels. If she doesn't say anything back, she might not be into it. If she responds with "Oh, yeah" or a similarly enthusiastic phrase, she wants more.

Final note: Skip the cheerleader comments like "C'mon baby, you can do it!" "Give it to daddy!" Yuck, that turns ladies off big time.