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Joan On Sex: How Do I Meet A Nigerian Man - A US Citizen Is Asking

I have spent most of my life learning the African culture and there is still more to learn...I want to learn the best way to meet a Nigerian man.

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Joan On Sex: A female US citizen wants a Nigerian man

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If she's looking for a Nigerian man, would you...?

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Hi Joan I am a citizen of the US. However my entire life I have been attracted to African men more than American men. I love their culture, the food, the music and I appreciate the struggle. I have spent most of my life learning the African culture and there is still more to learn. Since you provide advice on relationships, I want to learn the best way to meet a Nigerian man. Sincerely Lisa

Dear Lisa,

I want to believe you just made Nigerian men the proudest men in the world... lol. Well, its simple - come to Nigeria! There are so many black, handsome, responsible, loving and available men in Nigeria who would want to commit themselves to being with you, probably for the rest of their lives. Another thing is you can go online and search via some of these legal dating sites. You could find one or two or more. But you also have to make sure you have what they need... if you get my drift.

 

Hello Joan, my name is paul and I'm 23year ago. I don't know why it's so difficult for me to make intimate friends but it's easy for me to make casual friends. Each time I voice out the way I feel for them, I am always turned down. I also find it a bit difficult to walk up to girls without anything bringing us together. why plsss?

Dear Paul,

One word - FEAR! it's a common factor among young people. Guys and girls find it scary to appraoch people they think are cool and are also afraid of rejection. Also you have to find out what's it about you that make them don't wanna come 'closer'. If you want something go for it. Do things that will also attract that person towards you. Find out what the girls want and give it to them. Getting the best and right person is not only a luck, its also about YOU doing all you legally can to get it!

 

Hi Joan, am Henry from Ebonyi. There's a girl I've been dating for like a year now and we had sex sometimes and I intend marrying her after my NYSC programm. The problem is that there's a boy who calls her frequently and when I ask, she says it's just her casual friend. The thing has become too much that we now fight. I'm now considering breaking up with her if she doesn't broke up with the boy. She insists on keeping the boy. I love her and she showers me and my family with gifts, my family love her too. I realy don't know what to do. The boy told her to change her phone number in one of the text he sent to her, do I go ahead and brake up with her? Pls help me

Dear Henry,

Yes do! It's useless staying when it's obvious she's inlove with someone else whome she now listens to more than you. It also looks to me like you are in that relationship beause she "showers gifts" on you and your family. Which is totally wrong to my opinion. Sweetheart, your girfriend is so dating or sleeping with that 'phone guy' now so please move on with your life. Is she really wants to 'marry' you, she'll be back... someday!

 

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