Daystar Christian Centre clergyman, Pastor Sam Adeyemi, believes that marriage proposals don't necessarily have to come from men.
While preaching on “Prepaper for the wedding”, on Sunday March 16th, the respected man of God, went against popularly held beliefs, and shared his opinion about women proposing to the man. He also gave insights on how they can go about it the right way.
“Some people may ask, Pastor is it okay for it to be the lady that will tell the guy about marriage? Well, is there anywhere in the bible that says a lady can’t tell a man? The thing though is, a lot of time, it’s better for the guy to pop the question because men become suspicious a lot of time when they are being chased. They like to eat meat that they chased in the bush. They don’t like the one that falls on their lap dead.
However, sometimes, all the signs are there that she is the one but he is not just speaking. Its also not healthy for the lady emotionally for the man to be so close to her and yet not say anything. So in such a case, a lady needs to prod him.
"So how can a lady go about it? Ask him where are we going? I sense this is where the relationship is going, what do you think? Its either a yes or a no, but with that, you know where you are going instead of being on an emotional roller coaster and your heart is smashed into pieces at the end of the day”.
This is really interesting. Do you think it is proper for women to propose to men?