What should a man whose wife is into kinky sex do?
My name is Daniel and I got married about six months ago but I am already fed up because my wife's sexual recklessness.
I was born in a very conservative home where issues of sex was never discussed. I was already in my second year in the university before I had my first girlfriend and it took the insistence of my then girlfriend to deflower me at the age of 23.
Since then, I have had one or two relationships but my sex life has not been the type my friends discuss and glow in. I met Stella two years ago and from the word go, she made me understand that sex means a lot to her. I loved her so much and thought I could cope but now I am sure I made a mistake.
Stella is so liberated that she goes out of her way to try everything when it comes to sex, including anal and oral sex. She has tried to get me into it and though I reluctantly give in to oral, the anal sex is a total turn off for me but she has told me it is her greatest fantasy and even threatened that if I fail to give her what she wants, she would be forced to get someone who would give her.
Recently, she introduced sex toys to her routine and expects me to just fall in line just like that. I have tried talking to her but she is adamant in her sexual voyage. I threatened her that I would talk to our pastor about it but she countered by saying she would leave me if I do.
I am in a dilemma and do not want to lose my marriage.
What can I do?
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