Bambam on what went wrong with her friendship with Tobi

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April 4, 2018 5:04 PM

Bambam talks how her friendship with Tobi went from good to bad, says he was projecting his own fakeness on her.

On day 16 of the Big Brother Naija show, Big Brother paired

The chemistry between Tobi and Bambam elicited several Twitter reactions, with some even anticipating a romantic relationship between them.

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However, things changed between them when Tobi repeatedly told other housemates that Bambam, and her relationship with fellow housemate Teddy A, was fake.

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In this interview with Pulse Nigeria, Bambam explains what went wrong with their vibe and friendship.

On the good vibe and energy she had with Tobi

When we got into the house, everyone was getting along with everyone. Himself and I had a great conversation and it looked like there was good energy, there was a good vibe. Until I realized that it was a task for him to get information out of me.

So, I know that if it was genuine the way it started, we probably could have been a good pair. But fate had it otherwise.

Then when they paired us again, it was like another opportunity for him to try again what he intended before it became a task.

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On Tobi projecting his own fakeness on her

But that was all it was. Over time I realized that 'ah ah, from A-Z real quick.' I didn't get it. That was why I was more upset, because we had great conversation, you got to know me, [so] why all of a sudden are you selling this lie? What are you on about?

So even when he comes and says he is sorry, it became unnecessary. I wasn't seeing him anymore. I was totally irritated by everything he was doing.

I now saw that he was projecting his own insecurity, his own fear, his own fakeness - he wanted to take it out of the public eye and put it all on me. I don't know if he succeeded, but I wish him all the best.

Bambam and Teddy A were evicted from the Big Brother Naija house on March 31 and April 1, respectively.

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