Emotional or logical: Which is better for men in relationships?

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October 4, 2016 10:49 AM

Will the choice a man make between being emotional or logical ruin his relationship with his spouse?

Emotional or logical: Which is better for men in relationships?

Relationships are beautiful and good because it brings out the best in two persons of opposite sex who have decided to love and cherish each other. But on some occasions, relationships expose the worst in a man or woman.

But our concentration today is on the man. We will look into which among being emotional and logical best fits a man in a relationship.

Women are mostly considered to be emotional, not logical but let’ take an insight into what it will look like if a man becomes emotional or logical in a relationship.

Men are said to be moved by what they see and women by what they hear. This belief may not be true for all men and women but it is common in our today’s world.

A man would be moved by a woman’s look especially when she’s so beautiful to his taste and a woman would over time irrespective of the looks of a man begin to feel connected (emotional) towards him because of how he talks to her but as for the man, all he will be thinking is on how to get to her and have her to keep for himself either for marriage or just dating (Logical).

But would reverse be the case when a man becomes too emotional and ignore being logical most times? In homes, women are more emotional but the man tends to be logical as he is always trying have things done without many feelings but the women take their time to have an inner feeling towards what they want to do.

So does this mean that if a man becomes emotional that he will eventually take good decisions as it will help him take quality time on every matter?

When a man is logical, he tends most times not to understand the feelings of his spouse as they are not on the same pace at all. He is always thinking of what method to apply in relating with her while on the other side, she is just having a feeling of love and attachment which shows the bond existing in her heart with him but would this bond get broken when the man keeps being logical and ignoring her force of attraction towards him? Can being logical in this context ruin the relationship?

In the movie titled “Hitch”, Will smith was seen trying to teach other men how to use logics in getting women of their dreams but at a long run, fell victim of his own principles as he could not find a logic to get the woman he wanted.

He ended up becoming emotional and with that, got connected to her as his egocentric attitude was somehow brought to a lower level. He was seen literally begging the lady and also apologizing for being what he is over time.

At the end of the movie, he made it clear that there was no actual laid down principle for getting a woman to be on your side. So what did being logical do to Will Smith’s relationship with his girlfriend, didn’t it almost ruin it until he combined it with some emotions to key into the woman’s perfective? So can we not now conclude that a man needs less of logic and a bit more of emotion when relating with a woman in a relationship? Well, what’s your take?

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