2 things mutually beneficial in a relationship

olamide olarewaju

March 21, 2017 3:03 PM

It's no news that ladies and gents are wired differently but these 2 pointers are sure ways to get both parties to e together peacefully.

Studies show men want respect while women want to be loved and cared for in a relationship

Men look out for a few pointers the ladies may be oblivious to in a

It's no news that men and women are wired differently but there are things (practised) in the course of the relationship that would be to the benefit of both parties which comes to the couple's advantage if they get married.

1. Make your partner a part of everything you do

Experts say its in both parties' best interest to marry someone who is a part of someone's life this includes business/career, beliefs, thought process and everything else.

Described as a 'buy in' by Tara Fela-Durotoye an entrepreneur and relationship mentor married to foremost image consultant Fela Durotoye who described 'buy in' as a process where the partner is part of the other's process making them feel as part of the other's success as well.

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In which case she says they both have a sense of ownership with everything they do together making them a combined force.

She says; "Carry your partner along in your journey. Marry someone who is a part of what you are doing. For example If you're dating a guy and you're going for a job interview he should be involved. You and boyfriend should have the conversation of what job interview you're going for. It's called a 'Buy in', your partner has to be a part of the process, when a person feels as a part of a process they also feel like a part of the success, they have a sense of ownership. In my own case, even the name of my business i thought it through with my husband".

2. Note that men want respect and women want to be loved

A relationship between a man and a women is based on the belief crafted out the psychology of both parties i.e men love respect while women want to be loved. When both parties strive to please the other party in ways they like, the relationship is a mutually beneficial one.

Men and women are wired differently, studies have shown that men want someone to respect them- not necessarily worshiping them- and women want to be loved, cherished and cared for and if this is in place in a relationship, both parties get what they want out of it.

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